I'm a twin to my
brother, Albert Gramm, Jr. We were both born in
Pocasset, Massachusetts on September 5, 1941. I was
a surprise to my parents. I was not expected. They
didn't have ultrasounds back then.
About twenty minutes
after Albert's birth, I came into the world. Albert
was named after our father, Albert L. Gramm. My
unexpected entrance had them adding an "a" after
Albert for Alberta.
We have had some
likes and also big differences between us. Both of
us love laughter, have a great sense of humor and
loved being "the leader of the pack with our
friends."
Albert has always
loved to tease and cause commotion, even to this
day. Our differences are: With retirement, I became
a published author of A Healing Heart
released November 6, 2006. I'm now a non-planned
writer working on my second book.
Albert is on a
care-free journey of retirement living in Boynton
Beach, Florida. He enjoys the hot temperatures while
he laughs at me freezing back in Massachusetts
during our winters. Although, he misses out on our
beautiful, breath-taking color autumn leaves
falling.
We have never had
any vibrations of needing to call because of
something going wrong. In fact, I'm lucky to hear
from him while he is tucked in his private venture.
I'm the one sending the emails or making the
telephone calls to see if he is still alive. I keep
us together.
He does faithfully
call me every year to wish me "A Happy Birthday."
There doesn't seem to be a resemblance with us at
all. He wears glasses and I've thrown mine out and
grown into contacts. We have both had our ups and
downs with marriages falling apart.
I lost my beloved
daughter, Lori, on November 22, 2006 at the age of
thirty-nine from Cirrhosis. Her father died from the
same terrible family disease when he was forty-six
years old. Albert has two handsome, grown sons from
his first marriage. They carry their grandfather's
name and made him proud.
I feel the same for
him as I do my two other brothers. My first and only
"twin" connection came when he developed cancer in
1990. My heart stopped knowing that he was part of
me and that I could have lost him. With deep prayer,
God healed him. We both treasure, and are very
aware of, our ties with being twins.
Alberta Sequeira
Rochester,
Massachusetts