As the mother of Debbie LaChusa and her twin sister,
Valerie Stangle, I would like to share my story. My
husband, Dale, and I had the girls November 11, 1961
less than one year after we were married on December
26, 1960. We wanted to start our family right away
so you can imagine our delight when we discovered
that I was pregnant with twins.
Twins were not as common in the 60’s as they are
now. The grandparents-to-be were very excited as
well.
When it came time to bring the girls home from the
hospital after they were born, I asked Dale to bring
the beautiful baby comforters that we had been
given. I didn’t think about how slippery the
comforters were.
I remember sitting in a wheel chair, a beautiful
baby girl in each arm, ready to go home and praying
that they would not slide out of their covers.
Once home, we had many bottles of formula to prepare
and lots of diapers to wash and fold. No pre-folded
diapers in those days and we did not have diaper
service.
I always remember when Dale made a double batch of
formula late at night and left it on the stove to
cool as directed so he could put it in the
refrigerator. He fell asleep and had to pour all the
formula down the kitchen drain because we were
afraid it had spoiled. He started over at 2:00 a.m.
and made a new batch. That was a labor of love from
a brand new father.
Keeping these two babies on some kind of feeding
schedule so mom and dad could get a chance to eat
dinner became a challenge. It was dad that came up
with an idea! He tied a string to the mobile over
Debbie’s bed, ran the string through the living room
and attached it to the kitchen table. Because Debbie
was the smaller of the twins, she would wake up
first, fuss, cry, and wake Valerie who was still
sleeping soundly. What a great solution - when
Debbie started to fuss, all dad had to do was tug
the string, the mobile would move, Debbie would be
distracted and Valerie got a little more sleep
before she woke up. And, mom and dad got a few bites
of dinner before it got too cold.
When the girls were just old enough to walk and get
into trouble, I remember one day when they were
playing in their bedroom. All the sudden, it became
way too quiet. I walked in to see what Valerie and
Debbie were doing and found them having great fun
pulling all my nicely folded diapers from the
shelves where I had neatly stacked them. They were
unfolding all the diapers and dumping them on their
bedroom floor. Of course, I had to refold all those
diapers and stack them up again. I can still see
that funny picture in my mind!
As any twin and all mothers of twins know, Debbie
and Valerie were great companions and always had
someone to play with. Of course, there were fights;
hair pulling and sibling rivalry but they also had a
lot of fun. They have given us many good memories.
Joan McKasson
San Diego, California